When the disciples of Jesus asked for help with prayer, Jesus, so the tradition goes, gave them a model prayer. Simone Weil claimed that this familiar set of six petitions includes everything that any true prayer includes.
(“. . . we cannot conceive of any prayer not already contained within it.” – from the last paragraph of her essay “Concerning the Our Father”)
Our Father who art in heaven
These opening words indicate to whom we are praying. We are addressing the sire of our existence, the womb of our origin, the beyond of the beyond of the beyond. That Jesus chose the metaphor “father” rather than “mother” does not mean a contempt of women. It means that he lived in the first Century, not the twenty-first. Also, Jesus did not think of God as a human-built model of human values. God was sheer Mystery – the Unknowable Unknown without beard or penis, breasts or vagina. For this enigmatic Source of our existence, Jesus used the word “Papa” rather than “sire” or “womb” or “enigma,” not because he knew something about the nature of God, but because his relationship with this Final Source was familial. He trusted this Final Source of everything to be for him. He considered himself offspring of this Ultimate Parenting. He gave up his right to judge this Final Source and assumed that all that came toward him from that Source was good for him and for everyone. “Papa” (abba) was a devotional word, not a description of God.